top of page
  • Neil Colvin

What Are Clients With Anxiety Looking For In A Counselor in 2023?


You may be wondering, "Why do I need to see a counselor?" Well, you're not alone. Millions of people suffer from anxiety and many don't seek help because they think it's a sign of weakness or that their problems aren't serious enough to warrant professional attention. But the truth is that anxiety disorders are one of the most common mental illnesses in America--and they can affect anyone at any age (even children).

What Counseling Clients are Looking For?

Counseling clients with anxiety may be looking for a variety of things depending on their individual needs and circumstances. However, some common things that counseling clients may be looking for include:

  • A safe and non-judgmental space.

  • An empathetic and understanding therapist.

  • Tools and strategies to manage emotions, relationships, and life in general.

  • Validation, affirmation, self-awareness and insight into the therapeutic process (e.g., "I'm doing a good job," "It's okay to feel this way").

  • Understanding of the therapeutic process (e.g., "This is how therapy works" or "This is what we've been working on together").

It's important to note that every counseling client is unique and may have different needs and expectations from therapy. It's the therapist's responsibility to work collaboratively with the client to identify their specific goals and tailor the therapy approach accordingly.

Common Anxiety Treatments

There are several common types of therapy that can help people with anxiety. These include:

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). CBT is a type of talk therapy that helps you understand your thoughts and feelings, which in turn can help you change them. It's often used to treat depression, but it can also be helpful for anxiety disorders.

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). ACT helps people accept things they cannot control while committing themselves to goals they want to achieve despite their fears or worries about what might happen if they fail at them--for example, a person who wants to quit smoking but worries about failing may commit himself or herself to finding another way of coping with stress instead of turning back toward cigarettes when he feels anxious or stressed out again after giving up smoking temporarily during treatment sessions with his therapist.

  • Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT). DBT combines elements from CBT and Zen Buddhism; it teaches clients how not just think differently but also act differently when dealing with stressful situations so that they don't react impulsively without thinking through potential consequences first.

  • Mindfulness-based therapies such as mindfulness meditation, yoga, Tai Chi, Qi Gong, taiji quan, qigong, etc., which all involve focusing on breathing deeply while paying attention only on one thing at any given moment in time without judging yourself negatively for having thoughts about other things going through your mind at any given moment during practice sessions - even though these distractions may seem overwhelming sometimes due to their intensity!

The Benefits of Counseling for Anxiety

The benefits of counseling for anxiety are many, and they include:

  • Reducing anxiety symptoms. Many people with anxiety disorders experience significant reductions in their symptoms after just a few sessions with a counselor. This is because the relationship between counselor and client provides an opportunity for the client to express themselves in a way that feels safe and secure, which helps them gain insight into their own thoughts and feelings so they can develop coping skills for managing them better.

  • Developing coping skills. Counseling teaches clients how to manage stressors as well as difficult emotions like fear or anger effectively through various techniques such as breathing exercises or mindfulness meditation. These skills help people learn how not only reduce their overall level of distress but also build self-confidence and self-esteem by giving them more control over what happens around them--which ultimately leads toward feeling less anxious overall!

Finding the Right Counselor

When you're looking for a counselor, it's important to do your research. You want to make sure that the person you choose is qualified and has experience working with people who have anxiety.

Founder of Therafi Pointing To Key To Finding Answers
The Key To Finding The Right Anxiety Counselor

  • Look at their credentials and background. Do they have any special training in treating anxiety? If so, what kind? How long have they been doing this work? What kind of results have their clients seen over time?

  • Ask questions about their approach to therapy--are there certain techniques or tools that they use frequently with clients who struggle with anxiety (e.g., mindfulness meditation)? How often will we meet each week and how long does each session last? Is there anything else I should know before deciding whether or not this person would be right for me?


If you're looking for help with your anxiety, it's important to find the right counselor. The benefits of counseling can be huge, but only if you work with someone who knows how to help people with anxiety. A good counselor will understand what kinds of things trigger your anxiety and how those triggers affect your life. They should also know how to help you deal with those triggers so that you can feel better. They should be able to

help you understand and manage your anxiety, rather than just telling you to "calm down." If a counselor doesn't seem like the right fit for you, don't feel bad about switching. The key is finding someone who understands what it's like to live with anxiety and works hard to help people with this condition.

0 views0 comments
bottom of page